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Living with Fibromyalgia Without Medication: My Journey Toward a Balanced Life

  • Writer: JULIE HEYHOE-KIRKBRIDE
    JULIE HEYHOE-KIRKBRIDE
  • 6 days ago
  • 3 min read

When I was first diagnosed with fibromyalgia, I was overwhelmed by the options and the limitations. Like many others, I was handed prescriptions, told to manage my stress, and sent on my way. But deep down, I wanted something different. I wanted to understand my body, not just silence its symptoms. No medication I took seemed to work for me.


This is my personal story of living with fibromyalgia without medication. It’s not a blueprint, it’s an invitation to explore. If you’re on a similar path, I hope you find some light here.



💬 Listening to My Body (and Taking It Seriously)

Fibromyalgia is unpredictable. Some days, I feel strong and steady. Other days, even brushing my hair or getting up is too much.


The first step in my journey was learning to truly listen to my body. I am learning to stop trying to "push through" and have started tracking my symptoms, triggers, and energy levels.


Over time, patterns are emerging:

  • Poor sleep

  • High stress

  • Weather shifts

  • Overexertion

  • Over committing


With that, I am building an awareness and the ability to plan and protect my energy.


🧘‍♀️ Movement Over Exercise

I used to think I had to “work out” to feel better. But intense exercise often left me worse off. No pain no gain is definitely NOT my motto.


I have found that focusing on gentle, regular and consistent movent is much better for me.


Movement is no longer about pushing limits. It’s about helping my body stay fluid, supported, and calm.


😴 Sleep: My Game-Changer

Sleep is everything. When I don’t sleep well, I flare up, simple as that.


To improve my sleep, I have tried to create a consistent nightly routine (although life often gets in the way!).


🥗 Nutrition: Fueling, Not Fixing

There’s no magic fibromyalgia diet, but I found that trying to reduce inflammation through food is starting to help me. I do often feel like I have the flu after eating and my relationship with food is historically poor due to the unknown nature of my allergies/ intolerances but I find that essential oils are helping to reduce the reactions.


Here’s the ideal fuel:


  • Leafy greens and colorful veggies

  • Omega-3-rich foods

  • Whole grains

  • Lean proteins

  • Limited processed foods, sugar, caffeine, and alcohol (I don't drink any caffeine or alcohol through choice)


It’s not about restriction, it’s about choosing foods that help me feel more stable and energised.


🧠 Managing Stress, Mindfully

Stress is one of my biggest flare triggers.

I have always powered through it before but now I am trying to slow down and reset when I can and take time for me such as:


  • Nature walks

  • Canihiking

  • Photography

  • Spending time with friends and family


It’s about creating daily moments of calm, not just reacting after I crash.


🤝 Building a Support System

Fibromyalgia can be lonely, especially if you’re going the medication-free route.

Online communities and support groups can be really helpful as well as talking openly with friends and family about symptoms and triggers.


The more I shared, the more support I received.


📅 Pacing & Planning: My Energy Budget

One of the biggest lessons I’ve learned is the importance of pacing myself.

I now try to:

  • Break tasks into smaller steps

  • Schedule rest time

  • Use the Spoon Theory to explain my energy limits

Energy is a resource, I'm still learning how to budget mine!


Final Thoughts ❤️

Living with fibromyalgia without medication isn’t always easy and the ongoing journey is long and bumpy but in the last couple of years I have discovered the power of amazing pure essential oils and natural supplements. They offer me the support I need on a daily basis for nutrition and pain relief.


I still have bad days. I still get frustrated. But I also feel stronger, more connected to my body, and more in control of how I respond to the ups and downs.


If you’re walking this path too, please know this:


You are not alone, you are not lazy and you’re doing an incredible job.


👇 Have you found any non-medication strategies that work for you? Drop them in the comments. I’d love to hear your story.

 
 
 

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